How Do I Sweep This Girl Off Her Feet?
I go to a high school in Delaware, and I have very strong feelings for a girl I know. I recently decided to ask her to the "winter wonderland" dance, but something is holding me back. The fact that if I brought her to the dance, which would be better, having my parents drive me to pick her up, or just meet her there? On top of that, one of the fantastic things about this girl, is that even though she is sexual, she has better ways to release it than grinding on the dance floor, but this raises the question, how do i keep it romantic if we aren’t dancing? one last thing, if you have any advice on it, how can i sweep her off her feet? how can i make the night, one that she remembers very fondly?
Alright, well. Starting from the very beginning, I think the whole asking-part is really essential. It’s different for every girl. Some girls love the spotlight [in which case you would present her with roses in front of all her friends and ask her] and some girls prefer it in a quieter way [for example, randomly picking up a flower from the side of the road and presenting it to her before asking her out]. Find out and decide what kind of girl she is, and voila!
As for transportation, I always think that it’s fun to go as a group. Go with her friends, or ask her to go with yours. You guys could all be driven by someone elses’ parents or your very own. Go to a restaurant! it doesn’t have to be fancy. In fact, it’s a lot more fun when it’s casual. You can go all-out casual, like In-N-Out or Jack in the Box, or you could go a little less casual, but still informal like Panera Bread. That way, you guys could all bond as friends and with each other as a couple. Plus, it will help you think of things to talk about and do at the dance.
At the dancefloor, dance with her at least 60% of the time, but let her dance with her own friends as well! Take breaks together and get some water for her or something. Tell jokes, stories, etc. It will all come together at the dance. While you guys dance, keep it casual and comfortable! You guys can dance away, but also sort of talk at the same time. Be scandalous, or make fun of the scandalous. Who cares?! Just make sure it’s fun for her AND you. And when you decide to take a break, just smile and tell her that you want her to dance with her friends a bit, because it would be unfair to have her all night. It’s a sweet gesture.
Before it’s time to go, slip your arm around her and tell her that she looks beautiful, even if she’s sweaty and her hair is a mess. Then wink so she knows you’re just kidding about the second part. Keep it really fun and casual so she laughs! At the end, just kiss her cheek or something, and if things go really well, go for a short kiss.
Good luck!